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8:00 pm
September 21, 2009


happilymarri3d

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This is the first of two posts. Each a different even tfrom my life.

I remember lying in a bed in a hotel several years ago.  I had been going through a really rough time in my life, and had just started to pull myself out of it.  I was going through things in my mind and had started to nod off when I heard a voice whisper directly into my ear – "It really doesn't matter.."  It was clear as day and I jumped up out of bed wide awake. 

I freely admit it could have been imagined, but it was real to the point of feeling the breath on my ear.

Any comments?

9:03 pm
September 21, 2009


Stephen

San Jose, CA

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On one hand, hearing voices when falling asleep is pretty common, so I can't call it evidence of the paranormal. I've had similar experiences. To me, it sounds like an auditory hypnapompic hallucination. You're right that it doesn't have the same feeling as a dream; it's a state between waking and sleep.

On the other hand, sounds like good advice. Welcome to the site.

Stephen the Friendly Skeptic

11:12 am
September 22, 2009


TasCat

TasCat

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 On this one, I have to agree with Stephen, I too often hear things as I am going to sleep, it's fairly common I hear (pardon the pun).  Sometimes it can just be a loud noise or even someone calling out my name, I've even thought I heard my Mom talk to her personal assistant about something which I forget now, woke up to realize she was asleep and he had already gone home.

 Our brain is a very strange thing, I can see why the early scholars though that our heart was where our reasoning came from for us. This isn't talked about too much by the Ghost Hunters, even though we can experience hallucinations at the time of going to sleep as well or felt like we are being held onto the bed, I haven't had the last two happen to me, but hearing things happens now and then, I do take a lot of meds, this could be an explanation, or as a result of growing older….since, I don't really recall having auditory experiences while going to sleep when I was going up, but only after the stress of chronic illness over the years maybe.

 Or even it was paranormal, we will never know, we can offer some ideas, like stress and your brain dealing with it in it's own way, we often dream about how we feel, by this, I mean, if I'm really sore and in pain, I may dream I'm playing football or back working at the auto dealership I did during the last few months of high school for several years later, getting used cars ready for resale, this also happens when I'm both cold and sore, I was on my feet most of the day, washing cars in sometimes below 0 F temps.  Then I will wake up and realize I'm very sore and maybe the air-conditioner is a bit too low or it's quite cold out and the heater can't keep the cold draught from my walls at bay. So our brains can do weird things as we are going to sleep or even as we are dreaming, try to tell us something, like pull the darn covers up!

 Or maybe you heard a real disembodied voice, who knows?  I like to go with the above explanation by Stephen, why go looking for unicorns when you hear hoofbeats?  A variation I heard of Occam's Razor, "All things being equal, the simplest explanation tends to be right answer."  However, your other story leaves more questions than answers, to me anyway.  But again, could there be an explanation, sure. Is it 100% positive? We will probably never know, unless you happen to meet that man again.

"If the sheet doesn't fit, buy a new one!"

4:52 pm
September 23, 2009


Drache Frau

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My mother had an experience when she was a teenager in which she was in bed, about to sleep, when she saw a solid black mass on her ceiling. When she tried to scream, she found that she couldn't. She couldn't move and she couldn't speak. She was dreaming. She was awake, but she was close enough to sleep that her body wouldn't work so it all seemed even realer. I've heard that this is the most likely reason for people who claim to have been 'abducted by aliens'. It comes on from too much stress. However, your experience is much more comforting, and I would like to point out that perhaps it was exactly what someone wanted you to hear.

Ghost, n. The outward and visible sign of an inward fear.

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