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6:05 pm
March 20, 2008


Ghostlike

Investigator in Training

posts 9

Before I start, I would like to make a suggestion. A general paranormal discussion forum? For topics like this and discussions on other htings such as i.e Talking about theories of what could work to track 'ghosts', scientists have to say, announce a new ghostly program coming to tv etc tec. Also there's videos of so called ghosts on places such as Youtube that people could bring up and discuss. Just a thought.

Anyway I wanted to ask you all, inspired by the ?third? podcast I believe when Stefan and Logisti were talking about What is a skeptic?

Are you a believer or skeptic or both? Do you believe something exsists? Nothing? Why do you believe/not believe? How are you a skeptic? What will convince you something is a ghost or something else? What are you your beliefs on the afterlife if you have any? Etc etc.

We are all entitled to our own opinions/views/beliefs Smile.

I believe their are 'things' that aren't 'normal'. Whether they be ghost, faeries, big foot whatever, I believe 'things' exsist, some where in some shape or form.

I have relgious/spiritual beliefs and I believe in an afterlife; but I don't believe that ghosts are wandering souls or Uncle Tom coming to say a quick hello to his much loved neice. But I don't KNOW if such things exsist, I just believe they do so my beliefs can be proven wrong.

I consider myself a skeptic in the sense that I'm not going to just accept anything people bring too the table in the way of paranormal activity, and even when intense investigation and it comes off as unexplained I'm not ready to accept it as paranormal, It was just strange occurence and an explanation has not been found yet.

I posted my experience in the experience forums, and I am not personally convinced the shadowy figure I saw was there was paranormal, but it was unexplained and a strange and slightly creepy experience.

There still is a good chance there is a logical reason for me seeing it. It's a shame I'm not omniscent, that way I would have been able to see everything from every angle and such Wink

My thoughts on what 'ghosts' might be? I'm not sure, I would like to know but I don't think we will ever know.

The thing that would convince me a ghost is a ghost? Not sure, one thing I know for sure though is I would have to see it with my own eyes, in person.

There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy. ~ Hamlet ~William Shakespeare

6:51 pm
March 20, 2008


Logisti

Admin

posts 82

Ghostlike said:

Before I start, I would like to make a suggestion. A general paranormal discussion forum?


Done.

10:18 pm
March 25, 2008


Shannon

Investigator in Training

posts 16

I find myself just fascinated by it all! I love to hear the "true believers" and the skeptical folks that actually take the time to say why they believe something isn't true. Deep down I think that in time science will prove all of the paranormal stuff…and I think its actually going to be much weirder than anyone could have imagined if that makes any sense.

10:26 pm
March 25, 2008


June

Investigator in Training

posts 24

Ghostlike: I was intrigued by your questions, and glad that there is now a forum for a more general discussion of the paranormal.

Up front, let me say that I haven't yet seen/heard the podcast about skepticism and belief from Logisti and Stefan–so I apologize if I end up re-treading the ground they've already broken. I intend to look at their podcast–it's gotta be good!

What makes a believer? What makes a skeptic? Is there common ground for the two, and what makes us lean one way or the other? These are almost existentialist questions, and I would love to see the philosophically inclined among us attempt to answer them!

For many years, I was an unquestioning believer; I did not understand skepticism. To me, skepticism seemed dangerous, wrong, and egotistical. As someone who has developed skepticism, and is still growing in that skill or art or propensity, I can now look at unquestioning belief as dangerous, wrong, and egotistical!

There's a duality at play here: a thesis/antithesis, a yin/yang, a right/wrong, etc. The secret, at least for me, is to try to negotiate the way between these oppositions, finding my way within the abstract notion that we often call "the gray." Some might call it a "synthesis."

I have discovered that belief, in itself, is strongly associated with desire. The fact is that we believe what we *choose* to believe, and that choice is most often the result of what we desire reality to be, whether we know it consciously or not. Belief is most often not a conscious choice, but rather, one that is shaped by our upbringing and personality traits, as well as cultural conditioning. It isn't until we honestly confront our beliefs with *hard questions* that we begin to see why we believe what we do.

Those "hard questions" come from the skeptics' camp, and they're threatening to a believer. The truth is, skepticism will undermine blind, unquestioning belief, putting it all into question and taking away all claims of truth, but the truth *also* is that skepticism will set a believer free. What I mean by that is that a believer will be able to make *conscious* choices about a belief or belief system, rather than be tied to a passive, reactionary belief system that is threatened by questions and falls apart under questioning.

I believe in the veracity of a metaphysical reality because I choose to, given the information I have (which is always open to question and revision). I also recognize, consciously, my desires for belief, and I am willing to let go of any belief and its accompanying desire when faced with a contradiction found in known or scientific fact. Not one of us on this planet has access to all known facts, and we make our choices, whether those choices lean towards skepticism or belief, based upon limited knowledge.

Both skepticism and belief have room to play together in this space where not everything is–or can be–known.

I read your post about the shadowy figure you saw. It could be *any* of the possibilities you mention. It's your choice what to *believe* about it, should you choose to ascribe a belief to the experience. But you can also choose to leave it as an unknown, unexplainable phenomenon, given that you do not have all the facts. The third possibility: What facts you do have could serve to help you decide what might have been going on, and with that mix of fact and decision, you will have some sort of "belief" in the end, at least, about *this* experience. Belief need not be all-encompassing, you know, nor does it necessarily need to be associated with the supernatural.

June

11:45 pm
March 27, 2008


Stephen

Moderator

posts 70

I was born in the 1970's, when UFOs and psychic phenomena were in the news. Unlike other kids that worried about nuclear war, I had a quiet certainty that we would be OK, because the aliens would intervene if anyone tried to launch a missile.

Two things really changed my mind on the subject. First, James Randi's battles with Uri Geller made me doubt psychic phenomena, just like they did to many skeptics of my generation.

Next, there was an interview with Ed and Lorraine Warren on a daytime news show in which they claimed that a ghost had taken over their car and had made them slam into a snowbank. For some reason I didn't buy it. I realized, if people could say things like this on TV, how could I be sure about the things I did believe in, like UFOs?

The irony is that once I started driving and had my first skid, I realized that Ed and Lorraine Warren probably weren't lying– a skid can feel just like an invisible hand grabbing the steering wheel. They had just interpreted things according to their own beliefs.

So why am I a skeptic? The tagline for the X-Files read, "I want to believe." My tagline would read, "Forget believing. I want to KNOW." My mind is open to any paranormal claim– how can I say what's possible and what isn't? But without multiple independent lines of evidence, all I can do is take someone's word for it. And I want to know.

Stephen the Friendly Skeptic

10:01 pm
April 4, 2008


D

Investigator in Training

posts 10

Thanks for the great topic. I've been chewing over my own feelings on this for awhile.

I am a philosopher and a theologian (at least that's what my degree says). I was raised in a very Conservative Christian home where the supernatural was presented as VERY real. The modern me is the byproduct of my upbringing and my personal Christian convictions, with some modification along the way.

In addition to philosophy and theology, I have a strong interest in psychology. I love looking at the interplay between people's worldviews and ideologies as they corrospond or sometimes collide with their psyche.

I believe strongly in the presence of the supernatural or the paranormal. But I'm very skeptical of many of the experiences people have with it. I tend to look at most experiences or moments through a three part lense: 1) How does their psychological perception interpret the data? 2) How does their knowledge (or lack thereof) of the event's natural surroundings impact the interpretation? 3) Are they in control of the chain of events surrounding the event (in other words, do they take into account all actions done by others around them and their subsequent impact on the environment? something like Chaos theory)

That's why I appreciate this site so much. Not because they're disproving stuff, but because people here are daring to ask the question: is this a valid paranormal/supernatural experience? People here acknowledge that life, and moments in life, are complex sequences of events that can sometimes, many times be explained if the answer is looked for.

Do I believe in Ghosts or the traditional style of haunting? I don't think so. Would I be devastated to find out there are Ghosts in the traditional sense? Again, I don't think so. My belief in the supernatural allows me to acknowledge the interplay between supernatural and natural realms. But I consider myself a healthy skeptic: 9 out of 10 times I'm going to look and believe I'll find a natural or psychological explanation. The 10th time I'll think "WOW! That's WILD!" But somewhere deep inside I'll always hold out that perhaps we just can't explain it with what we currently know.

"A funny thing happened on the way to the forum…"

10:35 pm
April 8, 2008


June

Investigator in Training

posts 24

Wow, Stephen, your "I want to KNOW" really speaks to a deep human need that I think is often fulfilled by belief. Believers often claim "to know," and such sure belief seems to meet that "need to know" that is so deep in our psyche.

Of course, skeptics see "knowing" as something that has its foundation in verified fact, and blind belief is anathema! Just between you and me (!), I'd rather "know," too. But when I don't know, I don't object to belief. And I don't object to subjecting my belief to question or changing it when "facts" are contradictory.

And D, I appreciate what you wrote about what surrounds our experiences and what influences our interpretation of them. What is going on, in every moment, is so much more complex, really, than our own point of view can allow for. I think that's one reason we need other people in our lives–people who can give us their perspectives and thus help us to get outside ourselves. Reality is huge, isn't it?

8:02 am
April 9, 2008


Logisti

Admin

posts 82

I like what you said there about believing, but keeping your beliefs open to question and reassessment. That, I think is the true spirit of science and skepticism. All of us fall into the "sin" of "belief" one way or another every day, most of the time not even realizing it. It's simply human nature to perceive things in ways that aren't always accurate.

However, if you're faced with something that conflicts with your beliefs and instead of being defensive or offended you are open to review and re-evaluate I think that's all anyone can really ask for or expect.

Personally, I envision it as a system where I assign each "fact" in my mind a percentage value of certainty, which can get very close to 100% but can never reach it. I'm 60% sure that some UFO sightings really are bizarre flying craft beyond our level of technology, but I'm 99.9% sure it's impossible to travel faster than the speed of light. Therefore it would take a lot more evidence to sway my opinion on the speed of light than it would to sway my opinion on UFOs — but if I were to see compelling evidence from a number of reputable sources that the speed of light could be surpassed, even that belief is open to question.

3:03 pm
May 5, 2008


iwanttobelieve

Investigator in Training

posts 25

You guys are awesome.

Thanks for putting this out there, Ghostlike, and to everyone for the fascinating discussion.

Heh, Stephen, I like your quote and now feel like changing my name! Only half kidding…I have gone from being a devout Catholic into my teens to a firm atheist in my 2Os to a current "all I know is that I know nothing." Part of me is jealous of folks who have a very strong belief system that they do not dare to question. Must be nice. I'm struggling somewhere in between, as many of us are. Sometimes the atheists sound so plausible; other times, the faithful do. I firmly stand my middle ground of "I don't know." But oh, how I want to believe. But even more, I want to know.

D, your comment really fascinated me. I just spent a while reading about a supposed haunting in Kansas: the woman who had the multiple experiences with her family wrote an enormous amount on it (I think she's angling for a(nother) movie script?). She discusses the fact that not knowing what this "entity" is that is attacking her family changes her perception: at first, she believes it to be a harmless little child; later, she believes it to be pure evil and now refuses to go back into her old home, even with ghost hunters. I think that much of her experience can be explained away, but if she's telling the truth - which is doubtful if I'm being good and cynical - something else definitely is going on there.

Anyway, having run into far too many staunch believers AND "born-again atheists" - who are both determined to belittle any supposition that they do NOT know everything in the universe - it's nice to find a group who is diverse, but still lies somewhere in between.

"The truth is out there." -FM

12:36 pm
June 10, 2008


jack

Guest

"I want to KNOW" kinda says it all, yes?

I have had several expieriences that make me sure that 'normal' extends a fair bit beyond what is generally taken as 'normal'. I do not, because of this, feel comfortable with the term 'paranormal' because it implies something outside of our generally percieved reality. If it is here, it is normal, real, within our bounds of experience. So it is not 'para'normal.

It's just something we don't quite understand yet.

And here the 'I want to know' fits perfectly. I want to understand

I will not ask anyone to 'believe'. If I have something I can't show you–that you can't experience yourself, what's the point? I can tell you all about it, but until you can experience it, it's just a story. Right?

But then again, I am not a fan of rabid skeptics like the Amazing Randi. There are limits to a healthy skepticism.

There are two instances that I use to illustrate an unhealthy skepticism.

The first deals with near death experiences and research done on them using centrifuges.

Skeptics have shown that the centrifuges they use to test G-force tolerance can induce the popular 'tunnel of light', sense of loved ones and all the other effects generated in a near death experience when testors black out from the excessive G-forces.

They like to use this to offer explanations for the near death experiences of others. To debunk those experiences.

In the tests, the centrifuges are slowed and stopped quickly so that the testors can be tended to. Why do they do this?

Because, if they do not, there is a very good chance that the testors could die.

Do you get where this is going? The testors are possibly having near death experiences, not from the action of the centrifuge, but because they are actually near death.

A lot of skeptics tend to leave that part out. It doesn't fit their preconcieved notions.

The second is the 'God Helmet'. The god helmet is a device that stimulaste certain areas of the brain in a certain pattern. By doing this it leaves the wearer feeling as if they've been touched by, or contacted by something of a divine nature.

Skeptics say that this means that 'feeling the presense of the divine' is nothing more than a carefully controlled chemical reaction.

I've actually seen the god helmet used as an argument in favor of atheism.

But a whole raft of questions go unasked–never mind unanswered. What is this feeling? How do people get it without the god helmet(some will answer 'drugs' to this)?

The questions don't get asked because they don't fit the preconcieved notions…again. The fact that the feeling CAN be generated this way means that any feeling that there is something divine is a chemical artifact. Even the question of why we have such a chemical artifact isn't questioned–what is it? what possible evolutionary purpose could it serve?

Too many people think that because something CAN be faked, it was.

6:36 pm
June 23, 2008


Robbin

Investigator in Training

posts 6

Jack I like your line, too many people think that because something CAN be faked, it was. I believe but I am not without reason and question things myself. It is good to question, but as someone that has had something real happen to them, you just know it happened. So what do I know, I know what happened to me and I can't speak for anyone else.

I too have seen skeptics reach for the explaination that is so unreasonable, it makes them look just as poorly as those believers who can't be questioned. I wonder about people that believe so blindly that they go a little goofy when questioned. Why is that? What is it that they are struggling with that makes them so unable to even think of another possiblity?

12:06 pm
June 28, 2008


Oubliette

Investigator

New Jersey

posts 35

Ghostlike, with all due respect I think that there is a difference between skeptic and non-believer. So technically it would be: believer vs. non-believer. A non-believer's mindset is already set in stone and nothing would shake his/her opinion no matter what.

To tell the truth, I am a skeptic (as opposed to non-believer) only because of my own experiences growing up in a haunted house, whatever that truly was. I like to think I'm as scientifically minded as they come, but what happened to me so many times cannot just be thrown out the window. I suffered a great deal for telling people about it as a child. I may criticize TAPS a lot, but I have to thank them for helping me to "come out of the closet" regarding my own experiences with the paranormal. Fear of ridicule made me keep my mouth shut for many, many years. Now I feel vindicated, in a way.

Being an atheist since childhood, I still cannot discount the existence of some kind of energy or "life force", to put it another way. It is my belief that such energy is what we are dealing with when hauntings occur. It is harder to reconcile what is called "intelligent haunting", because that seems to point to a belief in spirits. I prefer the term "existing remnants of consciousness". I know many atheists refuse to believe there is nothing beyond the physical brain, but I am open minded enough to admit that the Mind vs. Brain debate that has been going on since the time of the ancient Greeks is no more settled today then it was back then.

Logisti: I share your belief regarding the statement that nothing can travel faster then the speed of light. However, according to quantum physics, the existence of wormholes makes that unnecessary if one wants to travel through the universe. Theoretically, using wormholes IS a possibility. I'm still not convinced about UFOs, but if they exist it would not be necessary to even consider the speed of light into the equation. Pop through a wormhole and one could travel literally millions of light years. Just some food for thought.

Sleep - those little slices of death, how I loathe them. ~Edgar Allen Poe

12:29 pm
June 28, 2008


Logisti

Admin

posts 82

Oubliette said:

Ghostlike, with all due respect I think that there is a difference between skeptic and non-believer. So technically it would be: believer vs. non-believer. A non-believer's mindset is already set in stone and nothing would shake his/her opinion no matter what.


Another way to put it is: A non-believer is just a believer who believes something else. A (true) skeptic is someone who has yet to be convinced either way.

2:00 pm
June 28, 2008


J.

Investigator in Training

posts 23

A non-believer can still be skeptical.

Take ghosts for example.

While one may not believe in them based on lack of evidence, they can still be a skeptic and open to the possibility that ghosts do exist.

It's just that to change them from a non-believer to a believer would either take a personal experience that couldn't be dismissed or rationalized as having a natural explanation, or it'd take solid evidence.

Oubliette said: A non-believer's mindset is already set in stone and nothing would shake his/her opinion no matter what.

I think that is a true non-believer, the opposite of a true believer who thinks everything they see on GH is a ghost and can't be swayed in their opinion.

"Doubt everything. Find your own light." — Last words of Gautama Buddha, in Theravada tradition.

4:15 pm
July 24, 2008


kingofseattle

Investigator in Training

posts 6

I grew up in a small “cow” town called Livermore in the S.F. Bay Area during the 70’s (showing my age). Between the cold war fears and missile tests in the valley hills, there was “Creature Features” on the B&W T.V. and my odd companion book “Sasquatch, the apes among us” that I would take with me on my boy scouts camping trips. (In which I never slept because the thought of a yeti terrified me)

I spent summers on my uncles ranch working in the outdoors and though I certainly have lost whatever “survival” skills I may have acquired while I was younger, I did develop an understanding of nature, well,…no..more of a sense of what was around me vs. the tricks the mind can play.

As a young adult, I was torn between wanting to believe in Bigfoot and extraterrestrial u.f.o.’s and understanding how easy it was for me to misinterpret things I couldn’t explain. Having experienced what I call “2nd hand” phenomena that seemed centered around my sister (I’ll post about that sometime), I became open to the idea that maybe there was the possibility of psychic phenomena.

I like that side of me that to this day keeps those options open, not closed.

But I also realized that there was more to truth than personal belief and I started questioning what others seemed to take for granted. If for once someone could show me proof that didn’t start with “I heard from a source..” that a huge government conspiracy to breed Bigfoot with aliens super ghosts was real, I’d break out my “government lied” t-shirt and march to Washington with everyone else.

I don’t deny that within these stories there may lie some truth, but the burden of proof is with the story teller, not the listener.

For me, there is a long road to travel between being open to an idea and accepting something as truth and/or real.

I want to believe that I can believe.

10:11 pm
July 26, 2008


Stephen

Moderator

posts 70

Yep! "Creature Features" on KTVU! I guess it warped us both. Smile

Stephen the Friendly Skeptic

7:58 am
July 28, 2008


Oubliette

Investigator

New Jersey

posts 35

To tell the truth, IF what happened to me as a child had never occurred, I doubt if I would believe that the paranormal existed. But it did happen, and although I am very harsh on any evidence that someone presents, I'm still looking for explanations of the weird activity in my childhood home.

Plus, IMO there is enough evidence worldwide that something is occurring. Even Prof. Wiseman, who went into his research project regarding the famous Edinburgh Vaults with years of scientific training and research behind him, came out of it admitting that something was occurring above the realm of normal expectations. I find it fascinating that a person totally unfamiliar with the apparition of a large man with an apron would see it in the same spot it has been reported by many others.

You might want to read a true skeptic/non-believer's take on this. Here's a short commentary on Prof. Wiseman's research. What is not mentioned is that in a documentary, he also stated that the rooms which triggered the subjects' experiences tended to be very wide with low ceilings. A psychological trigger, perhaps?

http://paranormal.about.com/library/weekly/aa042301a.htm

Sleep - those little slices of death, how I loathe them. ~Edgar Allen Poe

7:46 pm
July 28, 2008


Stephen

Moderator

posts 70

Oubliette said:

Plus, IMO there is enough evidence worldwide that something is occurring. Even Prof. Wiseman, who went into his research project regarding the famous Edinburgh Vaults with years of scientific training and research behind him, came out of it admitting that something was occurring above the realm of normal expectations.


Thanks very much for pointing out this article, Oubliette! I read it and was surprised.

It's hard to know how to interpret some of those quotes. Dr. Wiseman is an affable guy and is, like an ideal skeptic, always willing to consider any possibility. (He used to study with Most Haunted's Dr. Ciarán O'Keeffe, who is credited in the paper.) On the other hand, reporters love to quote-mine.

I found Wiseman's 2003 paper on the subject, and you can read it here:

http://www.psy.herts.ac.uk/wiseman/papers/BJP-hauntings.pdf

From the abstract:

Results revealed significantly more reports of unusual experiences in areas that had a reputation for being haunted. This effect was not related to participants’ prior knowledge about the reputation of these areas. However, the location of participants’ experiences correlated significantly with various environmental factors, including, for example, the variance of local magnetic fields and lighting levels. These findings strongly suggest that alleged hauntings may not necessarily represent evidence for ‘ghostly’ activity, but could be, at least in part, the result of people responding to ‘normal’ factors in their surroundings.

From reading the paper, what Wiseman found "perhaps surprising" was the number of people who reported ghostly experiences in a well-lit location full of tourists (p. 7, 11). That may have been what he was talking about in the quote.

On the other hand, the quote may have been as it seems. Still, the last line in the paper speaks for the final conclusion of his study: "Taken together, these findings strongly suggest that these alleged hauntings do not represent evidence for 'ghostly' activity, but are instead the result of people responding– perhaps unwittingly– to 'normal' factors in their surroundings."

I'm not saying anything about the reality or unreality of hauntings at the South Bridge Vaults at Edinburgh, nor am I saying that the article was deliberately misleading. The article was written in 2001, when this study was still ongoing. Still, his paper is (in my opinion) one of the best examples of paranormal research ever carried out, and I think it's very much worth reading.

Stephen the Friendly Skeptic

8:19 pm
July 28, 2008


daSkeptic

Investigator in Training

posts 11

Logisti said:

Personally, I envision it as a system where I assign each "fact" in my mind a percentage value of certainty, which can get very close to 100% but can never reach it.


You just described science. :)

Contrary to popular belief, science does not deal in fact, it deals exclusively in possibility. The term "scientific fact" is a misnomer.

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